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Saturday, November 30, 2013
Celebrities React To Paul Walker's Death On Twitter
Source: thehuffingtonpost.com
Paul Walker Dead -- 'Fast and The Furious' Star Dies in Fiery Car Crash
We are the World for Philippines (We Are The World 25 - Michael Jackson COVER by Filipino Artists)
Artists:
Antonette Maria Bajamunde,Noreen Isabel Quinamot,Kyle Lemuel Juliano,Tiffany Mae Valdegamo,Enrico Ricardo Nolan,Wilholm Ho,Joel Aba
Jeva Villamil,Lee Abapo,Charyn Ong,Hanna Nicole Tesado,Michael Kent Jugador, Vinz Villarosa,Dezirhyl Genn Ramirez,Rakhim Salatan Tahir,Giancarlo Benguechea and Reymark Seblero of The Robbee Talents Club
Earl Neil Kho and Andy Canlas of Midnasty
Onna rhea Quizo, Ian Gue, Kyra Aguilar, Hanz Vallehermoza, Earnest Hope Tinambacan, Dave Trasmonte, Von Cathlene Panot,Carla Mongado,Arnold Munez. aka Bassunni,Carla Mongado and Jerry Catarata
Thursday, November 28, 2013
Lust: Sexual Desire Forges Lasting Relationships
The Psychology of Giving Thanks
It’s also not the case that people who express more gratitude are simply more satisfied because they happen to have nicer romantic partners. This bump in satisfaction is specifically related to gratitude; relationship partners who felt “indebted” to their partners for these everyday acts of kindness did not demonstrate the same spike in relationship satisfaction. Furthermore, couples who were instructed to express gratitude towards their romantic partners experienced these spikes in relationship satisfaction as well, even if they had not been habitually expressing gratitude before the experiment started. This shows that it’s not the fact that couples who express gratitude towards each other are somehow qualitatively different than those that do not — gratitude itself is important.
This effect is not limited to romantic relationships, either. Another study looked at the same phenomenon in sorority women who were meeting each other for the first time; new members who reported feeling more gratitude towards older sorority women who gave them gifts ended up experiencing higher relationship quality and satisfaction with those sisters later on. So, whether it’s your sorority sister, girlfriend, husband, or best friend, there’s evidence to suggest one simple thing to make your life a little happier: If you feel and express gratitude for the things that others do, your relationships with those people will be better as a result.
It’s Good To Give Gratitude…
Expressing gratitude can do a lot more good than simply making your husband or wife happy; it can make you a better person, too.
First of all, grateful adults report higher levels of well-being, regardless of age, gender, or marital status. This effect even holds after you control for other relevant personality traits, like neuroticism (or moodiness), extraversion, openness, agreeableness, or how forgiving a person tends to be. Over and above all of these variables, there is still a significant, positive relationship between gratitude and subjective well-being.
Secondly, experiencing gratitude can have a dampening effect on some morally questionable behaviors. In one study, some participants were prompted to vividly recall and write about a time when they felt grateful, while others recalled a neutral memory. They were then told that there were two tasks to be completed (one pleasant and one unpleasant), and they had to complete one themselves and assign the second to another participant. Even though over 80% of the participants in the control condition gave the other participant the undesirable task (ouch!), that number dropped to 50% among the participants who were induced to feel gratitude. Furthermore, there is something in particular about gratitude that evokes this cooperative response; participants who were induced to feel proud felt just as happy as those who felt gratitude, but acted no better than the control participants. It’s not simply that people act more altruistically when they are happier, or when they feel better about themselves. There is something very special about gratitude.
…And Good To Receive It!
Expressing gratitude is not only helpful for the person who experiences it. In fact, receiving gratitude from others can be especially beneficial for the helpers themselves. When people who provided others with help were then thanked for their efforts, they were more likely not only to help that same person in the future, but also to help others as well.
What’s the logic behind this effect? We all have two great needs in life — we want to feel like capable, competent people (agency), and we want to feel like we are connected to and needed by others (communion). When someone is thanked for his/her helpful behavior, this actually fulfills both of those core human needs. It fulfills the need for agency because it reinforces the idea that the helper is capable of providing needed help, and it fulfills the need for communion because it reinforces the idea that the helper is valued and appreciated by others. In fact, when people have been thanked for their behavior (e.g. others have expressed gratitude towards them), they report higher levels of perceived competence and social valuation (though only this latter sense of perceived social worth is causally implicated in the increase in future helping behavior). So if someone helps you, make sure you express your gratitude – this will make your helper feel capable and valued, and this sense of social “worthiness” will increase the odds that he/she will go on to help more people and spread the joy.
In the end, if you’re grateful for your friends and family, tell them so today — but also make sure you let them know about it all year round! It will help your relationships, your well-being, and the world around you.
This year, among many other things, I am especially thankful for my family, my friends, my fiance, my two crazy cats, a healthy body that can successfully teach 6-8 Zumba and PiYo classes each week & make it through a bunch of Tough Mudders and Super Spartans , my loved ones’ good health, and my education.
Happy Thanksgiving!
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Source: http://www.scientificamerican.com/blog/post.cfm?id=thanksgiving-2013
Wednesday, November 27, 2013
Miley Cyrus - Wrecking Ball (Chatroulette Version)
Thiefie: Man Taking Selfies on Stolen Phone Denies Accusations
Original story here - http://www.wheninmanila.com/thief-steals-from-volunteers-helping-typhoon-victims-unknowingly-uploads-selfies-to-the-internet/
He came forward and says he didn't do it.
Tuesday, November 26, 2013
Eyeball Jewelry Is the New Piercing
The Illicit History Of 'Comfort Women,' The WWII Tragedy We Can't Forget
Monday, November 25, 2013
Waste your life drawing lines, or live life crossing them
Sunday, November 24, 2013
Ohio State Marching Band Plays Tribute To Civil War, Gettysburg Address(VIDEO)
So true
Saturday, November 23, 2013
Victoria Beckham -- I'm Selling My Spice Girls Crap ... To Help the Philippines
Filed under: Photo Galleries, Victoria Beckham, Fashion,Becks & Posh, Spice Girls, Celebrity Justice
Pacquiao beats Rios in unanimous decision to rebound from successive defeats
- Article by: CHRIS LINES , Associated Press
- Updated: November 24, 2013 - 12:10 AM
- Source: http://www.startribune.com/world/233191461.html
- Manny Pacquiao
- Disaster Natural
- Source: http://www.startribune.com/world/233191461.html
Filipino typhoon survivors root for Pacquiao
TACLOBAN, Philippines -- Thousands of survivors of Typhoon Haiyan in the central Philippine city of Tacloban have jammed a damaged sports stadium and public plazas to watch the telecast of Filipino boxing icon Manny Pacquiao's bout on giant screens.
BY BULLIT MARQUEZ
ASSOCIATED PRESS
Read more here: http://www.miamiherald.com/2013/11/24/3775734/filipino-typhoon-survivors-root.html#storylink=cpy
Pacquiao beats Rios by unanimous decision to claim vacant title
Manny Pacquiao vs Brandon Rios Updates
Gradovich retains IBF feather title, beats Dib
MACAU — Russia’s Evgeny Gradovich retained the IBF featherweight title when Australia’s Billy Dib quit in the ninth round Sunday at The Venetian casino in Macau.
Mexican heavyweight Andy Ruiz Jr. extended his unbeaten record when American opponent Tor Hamer quit after three rounds despite leading on the judges’ scorecards. Ruiz retained his WBO intercontinental heavyweight belt and added the NABF title.
Zou Shiming, China’s two-time Olympic gold medalist, improved his professional record to 3-0-0 with a unanimous points decision in his six-round flyweight bout against Mexico’s Juan Toscano.
Author: The Associated Press
Source: DailyRepublic